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On being a single spankee From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (13 hours old)

There is some sadness, but also a world of possibilities. My Cariad is my soulmate even if we are friends rather than lovers and spanking partners. We are lucky to have each other in our lives. Mean… more

A Time for Every Purpose From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (9 days old)

The house is empty now apart from the room next door which is full of cardboard boxes, bin bags and piles of plates, cutlery and books ready for the removal firm to pack tomorrow. It feels strange to … more

FAO Phillip From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (15 days old)

Attempted to answer emails but what I thought was an AOL address failed. If you want to send an email address to my website or via BS I will forward reply. Cheers, Suzee… more

Pink, Blue, Lilac From puredawn ^Pro in Beautiful (17 days old)

Judging by the light, I think my laptop must update its own clock. That's good to know, as it would probably take me an hour to work out how to change it manually! I seem to have lost my ability to ha… more

Is spanking sexual? Another angle From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (18 days old)

This is a huge issue in Spanko World. Some see it as non-sexual and get some sort of emotional, cathartic or sensual 'hit' or an endorphin high and enjoy it in a different way. I can sort of understan… more

October From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (22 days old)

I looked back to the earliest days of my blog today and what a different world it described, a world that I barely recognise now. In fact, that there was once a time when I was married and would come … more

I think I've just become single... From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (26 days old)

I feel as close to my Cariad as ever, but life has taken its toll and we appear to have moved to friendship instead. It is sad, but also a new chapter...… more

A Gift - Virtually From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (27 days old)

I know some of you visit the Secret Garden quite often but maybe for somebody today this will be there first time. Whichever one you are, step through the wrought iron gate that marks the entrance, o… more

More on sex and spanking From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (31 days old)

I've been browsing elsewhere as well as having conversations with others and have become aware of something rather new to me. It appears that male spankers who find spanking sexual appear to be amazin… more

Black Dwarf or Black Hole? From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (32 days old)

I got to thinking about what I would do if I decided to quit blogging. Some people simply delete their blogs entirely and all their own creativity, over months and even years, is sucked into a black h… more

Filthesses From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (37 days old)

I was listening to 'The News Quiz' on friday and one of the questions concerned the two police women who were told by OFSTED that they coouldn't look after each others children on a recipricol relatio… more

First time in ages! From puredawn ^Pro in Beautiful (41 days old)

Well, I haven't been on here in so long, I wasn't sure if I had the right address A little like visiting an old friend, wandering up to the door and tentatively knocking, lest they may have moved. … more

Playing in the attic From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (44 days old)

When I was a little boy I had a friend who I would play with and one of our favourite games was to explore his attic. First we'd make sure that all the lights were off and then armed only with a torch… more

Return to Strangles From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (52 days old)

This is my first weekend on my own for some time so as I have been rather neglectful of my photography and I thought I would return to a beach on the North Cornish Coast that I particularly love and s… more

Thank You From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (55 days old)

Thank you to everyone who has written to support me in recent weeks. I promise I will reply to all of you at the weekend as each of you deserves a full reply to your kind and thoughtful comments which… more

Bedtime Stories From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (81 days old)

You may have noticed that I have changed my main picture from Forest Palace to one taken from one of my favourite stories of the ones that I read to my children and that is, 'The Monster Bed'. Basical… more

I have been outwitted by From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (84 days old)

Our rabbit! But let me start at the beginning. My son and I decided to let Fluffy,(look I didn't name him I just inherited him!) have the run around the whole garden as we are likely to be moving s… more

Coffee shops From puredawn ^Pro in Beautiful (84 days old)

I was just in Tchibo in town. They have a coffee shop and shop shop combined, which is closing down- so that's a good idea then- so I popped in and bought a trivet. Actually, it's 2 trivets in one: a … more

The Joy of Mothering teens From puredawn ^Pro in Beautiful (84 days old)

Everybody warned me about the teenage years! When my children were younger people looked at me with sympathy and horror while saying:"I wouldn't want to be you when they're all teenagers!" I have 6… more

Trespassers Will? From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (87 days old)

Sorry I have been away for a week and I have checked the visitors numbers and see that some of you have been shinning over the wall while I haven't been here and trespassing! So where did you play? … more

Judas? From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (96 days old)

I am naturally contrary, give me something that I ought to like or tell me something that I ought to think and you can bet your bottom dollar that I will take the opposite path. This character trait r… more

'Outgrowing' Sex and/or Spanking. From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (98 days old)

This is something I've been pondering, following a discussion on a spanking site: http://www.britishspanking.com/forums/showthread.php?t=45640 I see spanking as sexual, but not everybody into span… more

Ffwch-mi Shoe Company... From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (98 days old)

Further to my last post on the subject - my lovely friend Linda looks utterly fabulous in red lipstick and highheels. She was at a meeting in England and sporting a pair of FMs. An English colleague e… more

Homage to Beryl Cook - naughty but fun! From suzeemoon in Thoughtful, Curious Spankee (99 days old)

My Cariad and I have just celebrated six years' of togetherness and rather a lot of spanking.:>>:yes: I'm not a proper exhibitonist, but we'd always planned that my Cariad would do some spanking illu… more

Hi From varshakale in LET US TURN HISTORY INTO HERSTORY! (103 days old)

Hi everybody...how are you… more

And the answer to what links is ..... From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (103 days old)

Ok, I've kept you guessing for a day but now I have to come clean and tell you all the answer, now the tag was 'impossible quiz' which meant that actually no-one was going to get it though la spice… more

The ghosts beneath the floodlights From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (103 days old)

My time has come and gone so I can simply watch now with only the faintest hint of regret and an easily suppressed desire to lace up my boots and be out there again. The floodlights are switched on a… more

What links ..... From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (104 days old)

OK, What links, The Fast Show's Ted and Ralph, With W.W Jacob's 'The Monkey's Paw' and Maria from The Sound of Music? Any ideas anyone?… more

A compulsion to ..... From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (104 days old)

From my archives, I was listening to Radio 4 on the way into work and there was an interview with Daniel Barenboim who is this year's Reith lecturer. At one point, in what was a fascinating intervi… more

Democracy From timsuzi ^Pro in My Secret Garden (113 days old)

When I was a student I roomed with a young man from Sheffield who as a devout Socialist proposed that because the masses were so stupid, the evidence for this being provided that they had voted in Mar… more